About Bereaved Families of Ontario – Ottawa Region

Heal From Within

Our Mission

We inspire hope and healing for people in the Ottawa Region grieving the loss of a loved one.

Our Values

Empathy | Patience | Kindness | Compassion | Courage | Companionship | Self-Care

Our ongoing commitment at BFO Ottawa is to actively listen, learn, and lead by example, ensuring that our organization is diverse, equitable, and inclusive for all individuals where people from diverse cultural, sexual, gender and other backgrounds feel that they can be supported in their grief journeys.

Our History

We have been operating in Ottawa since 1978 when two mothers came together through a common experience of losing a child.

We are part of a provincial network : Bereaved Families of Ontario.

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BFO Ottawa volunteers accept the Mayor of Ottawa's Community Builder Award in 2019

Our Wonderful Office Staff

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Jane Davey



Program Manager & Bookkeeper


Jane has been involved with BFO Ottawa since 2004 following the death of her daughter Emily. She is a grief support facilitator, Program Manager and a previous Board member. Jane retired as a financial analyst after spending her career at Calian and The Ottawa MacDonald Cartier International Airport Authority.

Monique Strathern



Volunteer Coordinator

Monique Strathern joined the BFO Ottawa staff in 2023. She brings to BFO Ottawa a background in training, business development, event planning, finance and working with volunteers. She is a retired Chartered Professional Accountant, a business owner and is involved in the local business networking community. After losing her best friend tragically, Monique turned to BFO Ottawa for support. Later, she chose to give back to BFO by volunteering as a grief and bereavement facilitator. Monique enjoys camping, backpacking, and hiking with her family.


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Our Dedicated Board of Directors

Micheline Lepage



Board Chair

Micheline joined our Board in January 2021. She held positions with the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation (CBC), the Information Technology Association of Canada (ITAC), among other companies. Micheline retired from a career in information technology in 2019. She participated in BFO Ottawa's programs after the loss of her son Bruce to cancer in 2014. She is a trained facilitator who supports others who have lost a child.

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Lisa Vadeboncoeur




Lisa joined the board in September 2023. She is an experienced grief peer support group facilitator with BFO Ottawa and has many years of work experience providing administrative and program support in the public health care industry and in the public service. Lisa is grateful to the support that she received from BFO Ottawa after the loss of her only sister Nicole in 2015. She is very keen in finding meaning in everything she does.

Barrie Marfleet



Director, Provincial Representative and Fundraising

Barrie joined the Board in September 2023. He is currently retired and a now resident of Stittsville (Ottawa). Before retirement, he was the COO and Ontario President for the Information Technology Association of Canada (ITAC) and prior to that, he was the Senior Business Development Manager for Ajilon Consulting. Barrie is an active sailor and boating enthusiast. He enjoys playing the piano and the accordion and entertaining seniors. He also enjoys creative cooking.

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Stéphanie Fragman


Director Fundraising

Stéphanie joined the BFO Ottawa Board in March 2022, bringing with her over 20 years experience in the non-profit sector.  Since 2014, she has been the Director of family services at the Vanier Community Services Centre in Ottawa overseeing a wide range of children, youth, and family programs. She is fully bilingual and has lived experience with bereavement having lost her spouse in 2001.

Samantha Thompson

Director Communications

Samantha joined the board in February of 2024, bringing deep expertise in public affairs and strategic communications in health care, honed through her work supporting various health organizations and wellness charities. She has worked across a broad range of industries as a strategic communications and government relations consultant. Samantha's personal experience with grief and loss, coupled with her active involvement in the community, underscores her dedication to supporting BFO’s mandate and those grappling with similar challenges.

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